Devotion to the relationship

This week in my BSF lesson, there was a question that asked about if and how a certain change had taken place. This brought me back to the issue of how I ended up where I am now and the difference from before.

For those that haven't heard my story, I grew up in a Christian home in Pennsylvania. I moved down to San Antonio to live with my grandfather with my mom when my parrents got divorced between elementry and middle school. In 6th or 7th grade, I made an intellectual decision to follow Jesus, but looking back, I can't say I really was. After 7th grade, me, my siblings, and my mom moved out into our own house. Somewhere in the middle of high school, I was convicted through a dream and recommited my life to Jesus. At this time, there was a real change. After high school, I started my current job. I hadn't a driver's licence so I rode the bus. My mom made me attend BSF, which I didn't put enough effort into to really get much out of it. I rode the bus for three and a half years, after which they changed the schedule so I could no longer do that; at this point I got a licence and a car. About a year later, I moved out with some friends. At first, I continued to go to church and to BSF, but Sunday morning exhaustion and other priorities (both WoW, probably...) phased those out as well as daily prayer. For three years I lived a life dovoted only to self-gratification; as a nerd that meant video games, electronic music, and tech toys rather than sex, drugs, and rock and roll, but it was meaningless just the same. It was arround March of 2007 when I was convicted by the Holy Spirit "Why don't you pray at night?" "I'm too ashamed." "Isn't that exactly what the Devil wants? To drive a wedge between you and God?" This short conversation changed my life. From this point, I refused to let my shame get in the way of my relationship; if I was ashamed, all the more reason to go to the Lord now and get it out of the way. Also, I stopped wallowing in my shame. In the past, I pretty much asked for forgiveness for sins over and over, but now I confess, ask for help, and put it behind me. Having re-established daily prayer, I eventually felt that I needed to rejoin the community of believers. The first week of July, I decided to try Grace Point; it was close to my residence, my aunt and uncle go there, and it was familiar ground since my BSF class had used the facilities for years. I had always intended to return to my old church, Crossroads, to consider going there, but I just felt that Grace Point was where I belonged. I remember sending off Kyle and Stephani in the worship service, then joining the Tribe a few weeks later. I was a bit unsure at first, but soon felt like I fit in and decided to stay. In September BSF started back up and my sister wanted me to go to the BSF young adults class with her; I told her no on the spot, that I was too busy (being busy, that is...). God had other plans; I immediately felt uneasy about the situation and eventually realized that BSF was exactly what I needed: a structured daily quiet time with accountability. So I joined BSF; interestingly enough, the material is on a seven year cycle, so I'm studying the same thing now that I was when I first started. The difference is phenomenal; scripture that was "yeah, yeah, I know this" last time moved me to tears this time, and was so much deeper. All the things that I used to desire have become insignificant. I decided that I don't need an Evo. I decided that my current job is my dream job. I decided that I don't need or want a Dell 30" monitor. I think for the first time in my life I know true joy and contentment.

So what's different now from seven years ago? Every time I consider it, I decide that it is this: Seven years ago, I was trying to live the Christian life for myself, for God, and for the approval of those arround me; today, I just want a closer and deeper relationship with Jesus. Seven years ago, when I recognized my sin, I felt shame; today, when I recognize my sin, I feel closer to pain, that I am driving myself away from God. Seven years ago, I relied on myself to live right and asked God for help; today, I rely on God to help me change. Seven years ago, I had all sorts of personal requests of God; today I ask only for help focusing on work, for sleep, that I would know His will, and that I would have the strength and will to do it.

I pose the questions to you:
Are you trying to live the Christian life on your own?
Is your relationship with God your one thing?